2008/09/15

Help Collection: Institute of compromise

Help Collection: Institute of compromise

Taking into account wear high heels, pencil skirts can let themselves become more professional, more feminine, many elite readily Help women to a pair of jeans, sports shoes were made by the other shook hands. They apparently did not realize that this character is the first step to the career of compromise. Most people will rise to this compromise, or do not think this is a compromise, but "should" so.

However, with the escalating demand for professional, "should" or "should not" become more and more people confused.

Britain's "Financial Times" columnist, recently wrote in the article: 25-year-old Wei-wei, the advertising company fought two years after the state entered the bottleneck. The new owner of single men and love nightlife, like the men and women colleagues to find out Paoba. Wei-wei always smile each time refused, the first, and do not like this Paoba entertainment; Second, even if it is Paoba, and bosses do not want to bubble. But she soon discovered that the business of the company gradually went to the boss likes and with the staff where the nightlife, and she then degenerated into those people's deputy. In this round of the competition in the workplace, she lost baffling.

Is the boss-loving anomaly . A colleague has taken "should not" competition means » Or their own "should" forget the personal preferences, to participate actively in the nightlife go to Paoba .

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When Wei-wei for his struggling compromise the bottom line, some people in the greater compromise to advance.

A financial industry, the sales staff, read many times "Sales Collection", and found that they have a fatal weakness - the blink of an eye the frequency too high. According Collection, frequent the blink of an eye is not prudent to give people, not the feeling of self-confidence and even dishonest. His determination to "bad habits" challenge. After two weeks, he exercises every night in front of a mirror, to minimize the frequency of the blink of an eye. He is now the only two minutes per eye blink first, and a natural habit, he gives the impression that this person does not love the blink of an eye born.

For career, many people who love life is a beautiful dream: a professional career, life is life, Jing said that the two distinct. Only in the workplace on the ladder, go higher, the more will find that this is a failure to complete the mission. Or to occupational compromise, or to the life of compromise. Only 24 hours a day, do one hour of work, the less sleep one hour will feel the reason is that simple.

But the compromise some very smart. Paoba to accompany the boss with the above example, only some of my colleagues in the first several times to a bubble. And the boss Hunshu, mutual trust after the boss to understand that their Paoba really do not like, then immediately extricate out. Not only stabilize the cause, the preservation of life. On the contrary, those who accompany Paoba boss, the boss doubt whether the workload was not enough saturated »

Some people do .Both are unwilling to compromise, not willing to give up the workplace from the fame and fortune, only to complain that day, at night to do a nightmare.